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Many people find self-acceptance difficult because they attach their worth too heavily to external validation. The photos that are used in gay apps like Grindr, Scruff, Tindr, and others. The proliferation of gyms and personal fitness trainers.

The photos that are used in gay apps like Grindr, Scruff, Tindr, and others. Did you choose your bone structure? PS- While we’re sharing advice based on our lived experiences as out gay men and as a couple in India, we strongly recommend speaking with a mental health expert for professional support.

There is an important difference between accepting a reality and hating oneself for it. Your facial symmetry? Your body type? Posters in department stores, or billboards everywhere we ride or drive. Your natural muscularity? When You Know You’re Ugly: A Gay Man’s Guide to Coping with Physical Unattractiveness Facing the Reality of Physical Attractiveness As gay men, we are seemingly inundated with ideas, images, and pressures about appearance.

Or guys who seem to have a line of guys waiting to talk to them at bars or parties. Gay men competing for attention according to their appearance in bars, clubs, or social gatherings. Your teeth arrangement? Beauty is one social currency, but it is not the only one.

As gay men, we are seemingly inundated with ideas, images, and pressures about appearance. Your skin tone?

Unfortunately, dating apps are really tough for ugly people since they rely 99% on visuals, so you'll probably have to find other avenues to meet someone. The natural width of your clavicle? You just need to find another ugly gay and date him.

But think about it: Attractiveness is largely genetic. Your height? The images on the covers of gay magazines, or used in advertising targeting gay men for fashion, alcohol, even pharmaceuticals. Or guys who get inundated with messages on the apps.

The key to coping with physical unattractiveness is to acknowledge it without self-loathing. Gay men often endure pressures around their appearance that women do.

I’m ugly Incredibly ugly : I've read so many posts from attractive gay guys about all the fun experiences they've had with other guys

Or guys who get guys giving them their phone numbers on little pieces of paper in public or at parties, or guys asking for their Instagram handle. Recognizing that you are not conventionally attractive does not mean that you are unworthy, unlovable, or that you have no social value.

Others, though, recognize that they are on the other end of the spectrum, where traditional attractiveness is not one of their strengths.